Stop dating bad men
The most interesting thing about the essay was the resulting shitstorm of controversy which landed Waldman on a much-viewed Oprah episode during which a hostile audience nearly attacked her. Cliche as it may sound: You gotta put yourself first. You must make it a top priority to hang out with other adults — girlfriends, dates, relatives and friends.
Yes, that essay is a decade old, but it warrants a revisit because parents — mothers most especially — are still expected to make our children the center of our worlds, and I do love [my daughter]. It is not normal to spend all your time with children, nor make your offspring your primary emotional support.
And while you’re at it, indulge in your instincts to have a fulfilling and profitable career — without any guilt whatsoever!
— even though our culture tells you that stay-at-home mothers are better mothers.
These women actually appreciate Western Men (unlike most Western Women) because they appreciate that we treat them with politeness and respect.
Your new lady will fit right in with your family and friends and your home country.
These ladies are incredibly loyal, especially if that loyalty is reciprocated.
And the importance of friendship and family is paramount to them.
If you’re looking for some other kind of dating, then we are not for you and you are not for us. But if that does describe you, then you’ve just landed on the best website on the internet for you, bar none.
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