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If things don’t work out because of your ostomy, thank it, because you want to be with someone who is as strong as you and can be supportive.
The UOAA has put together a really in depth and informative guide for intimacy with an ostomy.
The UOAA also put together some fact sheets per gender that really briefly summarize the intimacy guide I mentioned above.
If you’re a guy, check out the Male Sex Fact Sheet.
No relationship is perfect, but I’ll tell you one thing – none of the imperfections of my relationship have been because of my ostomy.
If my vague story isn’t enough to convince you, I encourage you to read It’s In The Bag and Under the Covers by Brenda Elsagher.
Remember – these complications don’t happen to everyone, but it’s good to be aware of them.
For a nice chart that breaks down the level of risk for each complication associated with which surgery you had, check out page 13 of the UOAA Intimacy Guide.
This can include nerve damage that leads to the inability to achieve erection and can affect potency.It covers sex and how our bodies work during sex, common sexual problems, talking with your partner, effects of medicines on sex, and has other helpful hints.It’s very comprehensive and to try to relay all the information here wouldn’t do it justice.The damage is not always permanent, though it can take years to get your function back.If you are interested in having kids after surgery, it doesn’t hurt to talk to your surgeon about options for saving your sperm, just in case.