Being too eager dating
If you’re already dating him: Don’t try to pump him up or find a job for him or offer insights into what you think he should do with his life.This will only make him feel like a pathetic loser.Instead, try to make him feel like a winner in all the other areas of his life.Make an effort to acknowledge and appreciate him for who he is.If he isn’t getting out of a relationship, then it’s very likely his strong affections are a sign of some kind of attachment issues or self-esteem problems. If you’re in the early stages of dating, try not to see him more than 2-3 times a week.If he’s a too intimate too soon kind of guy he’s going to try to see you more frequently, say no!
Show too much interest and he’ll be scared away, show not enough interest and he’ll be too afraid to make any moves, show just the right amount of interest and he’ll get bored.Hold your own and don’t be afraid to walk away when you don’t get what you want, this is the only way to have a shot at getting what you want.MORE: When a Guy Won’t Call You His Girlfriend TYPE 3: The guy who hates his job and/or doesn’t know what he wants to do with his life Studies have demonstrated time and time again that while women gain their sense of self-esteem and worth from their inter-personal relationships, a man assesses his value based on his job or ability to have an impact on the world.Don’t be bitter about it, just be cool, confident, and honest.If he’s into you, if he truly likes and respects you, he won’t let you go. Just like neediness is the biggest man-repeller, self-respect is the biggest man attractor.